Valentine’s Day is behind us now and if you’re lucky, you had an incredibly romantic and possibly even steamy celebration with your partner. Maybe you had a nice dinner and finished the night off with some massage oils, or maybe you received flowers and thanked your man with some lingerie that he really enjoyed. Regardless of how you chose to celebrate, what you need to remember is that the romance and steaminess doesn’t have to happen on only that one special day – You should celebrate your sexiness every day and make each other feel that good every time of year.
Sometimes, it can seem hard to feel sexy, especially if you’re having an exceptionally long or bad day. Although it might seem pointless at the time, making that extra effort will pay off big time for both you and your partner. That’s not to say that you have to go through all the effort of putting on twelve pounds of makeup and not wear anything ever. There are many ways to feel sexy – and the sexier you feel, the sexier you’re going to look to your partner.
One of the best investments a girl can make is in a kimono. The silky fabric will feel amazing against your body and you’ll immediately get a confidence boost when you put it on. That confidence will shine through and make you more appealing than ever to your partner. Once you’re feeling confident and sexy, get out an erotic book (either purchase one or find one online – A quick Google search will bring up many) and curl up in bed with your honey. Read that book aloud together, paragraph for paragraph or pretend as though you’re the characters in it. In almost no time at all, you’re both going to be ready to make that book into a reality and start tearing up the sheets.
If you’ve been with your partner for a while, you might find that the sex has become more routine than anything. Instead of letting the spark fade, spice things up! Going to your local sex shop and buying a vibrator (or get one off the internet if you’re not comfortable with the idea of running into someone you know at the shop) might be a great gift for her.
With your new toy, not only will you and your partner have an entirely new level of play to experience with but you can also take care of yourself when they’re not around and the mood strikes.